5 Biggest Little Ways to Improve Your Marriage

This was from FamilyLife. Pretty simple. That's too easy, right?

5 Biggest Little Ways to Improve Your Marriage

Assertiveness and Pleasure

Assertiveness. It is okay for me (and for everyone else) to have wants, and feelings, and opinions.  It is okay to voice those wants, feelings, and opinions.  It is okay--and good even--to seek after those wants.

Pleasure.  Pleasure is good, not bad.  Seeking after one's pleasure is good, not bad.  Seeking after one's pleasure can become bad, when we let our desires run amok.